This lesson in your self-concept makeover gives you one more way to enhance your self-concept and self-esteem. When we see concrete examples of the qualities we admire, it can inspire us to do the same.
Most of us never aspired to be an average person working in a cubicle at a job we don’t enjoy. When you can be the person you’ve always wanted to be, your self-concept will be perfect for you. Isn’t this what everyone dreams about? When you’re the person you want to be, you’ll have the life you desire.
This is the ultimate goal. If you’re the person you wish to be and living the life you desire, your opinion of yourself will be at the highest possible level. Everything else is just a stepping stone to reach this point.
Even as you work on enhancing your self-concept, it’s important to accept yourself, wherever you may be on your journey. We’ll pause for summary and reflection of this self-concept makeover in the next lesson. Then, the next module guides you through the process of accepting who you are.
“Because one believes in oneself, one doesn’t try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn’t need others’ approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her
– Lao-Tzu
In your journal, write down one quality that you admire in someone else. How can you start demonstrating this quality yourself? Make a note to remind yourself to practice it each day.